- VOLUNTEER at your neighborhood school or community organization.
- KEEP kids BUSY and productive after school.
- SUPPORT your local battered women’s shelter and rape crisis center.
- MENTOR a youth.
- KEEP kids AWAY from guns, and guns away from kids.
- Don’t keep a gun in your house. If you do, lock it up.
- MONITOR your family’s movie and television viewing.
- GET NEWS of the day from more than one source.
- MAKE COMPASSION a part of your management style.
- BRING FAIRNESS to your workplace.
- TAKE CHARGE of protecting yourself; take a SELF-DEFENSE class.
- DON’T LAUGH at rape jokes.
- Be an ALLY; STAND UP for someone else.
- In an escalating confrontation, LOWER your voice.
- BE KIND to the homeless.
- LISTEN actively.
- SPEND TIME in nature.
- OPEN your HEART.
- CHANGE your mind.
- RESPECT people from other ethnicities and cultures.
- VOTE; participate in democracy.
- MAKE ROOM for the other.
- QUESTION stereotypes about gays and lesbians.
- PRACTICE smiling.
- LEARN ABOUT RELIGIONS other than your own.
- SIT in STILLness everyday.
- SPEAK your TRUTH with compassion.
- RESTRAIN from making hand gestures while driving.
- REDUCE road rage.
- Get to KNOW your neighbors.
- SHARE responsibility for the safety of everyone’s children.
- KNOW your police officers.
- POLICE the police.
- BE VIGILANT, not a vigilante.
- DEVELOP a household safety plan.
- Teach children the difference between helpful strangers and harmful ones.
- GIVE kids SAFE SPACES.
- USE the buddy system.
- AVOID isolated places.
- YELL to get attention if you’re in trouble.
- TEACH facts and strategies. Don’t teach fear.
- BE PATIENT.
- THINK about the effects of spanking.
- BE aware of your actions around children.
- GET HELP if you have an explosive temper.
- DEVELOP positive outlets for dealing with problems or stress.
- DEVELOP an AWARENESS of shared family beliefs about violence and its effect on others.
- PRACTICE & TEACH empathy.
- Don’t minimize or dismiss other people’s feelings.
- LET boys CRY.
- LET girls BE angry.
- BE FLEXIBLE.
- LET children FEEL their emotions.
- ENCOURAGE teens to have healthy relationships.
- TALK to your teens about the realities of dating violence.
- ENCOURAGE assertiveness.
- Don’t label female children as aggressive if they stand up for themselves.
- NAME abuse when you see it.
- HELP your sons and daughters learn to be responsible about their sexuality.
- TEACH your teens to distinguish between consensual sex and sexual assault.
- ACCENTUATE positive characteristics of healthy relationships.
- Take ACTION to INFLUENCE what is in the media.
- REFRAIN from using violent words or actions when reacting to conflict, stress or anger.
- Use CONFLICT RESOLUTION techniques.
- MEDITATE to gain clarity and focus.
- SUPPORT victims of violence in their healing.
- THINK before you react.
- SHIFT negative thinking.
- Be DISCERNING; refrain from judging.
- ENCOURAGE social justice.
- PPRACTICE respectful sexuality.
- CREATE a positive support system.
- CARRY your local rape crisis hotline number with you.
- Support ECONOMIC GROWTH in underdeveloped areas.
- Give a job to a youth from a disenfranchised community.
- Steer kids AWAY from gangs.
- CREATE sexual harassment free zones in your workplace.
- CONFRONT where and how alcohol is sold in your community.
- SUPPORT prevention and treatment of drug abuse.
- If you drink, DON’T DRIVE.
- Plan for SAFE driving with teens.
- Don’t let friends or guests drive impaired.
- Respect your elders.
- Support gang intervention efforts.
- Motivate gang members to renounce violence.
- Express GRATITUDE often.
- Learn the warning signs of an abusive relationship.
- Speak out on violence against women.
- Recognize and report hate crimes.
- Respect the experiences of rape survivors.
- LAUGH heartily.
- Don’t ignore violence.
- Base sexual relations on a firm yes; seek consent.
- Give youth a chance; don’t stereotype.
- Educate yourself on the myths and realities of rape.
- Take responsibility for your own sexuality; don’t let it be defined by anyone else.
- Promote corporate responsibility.
- Teach tolerance; lead by example.
- VOLUNTEER or DONATE to Peace Over Violence.
- INVENT your own way
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